It is all about choice…. yes, choice. Our own personal choice and we do have it, despite what we think sometimes. For codependents, personal choice is often a concept that escapes them. They feel their destiny and choices are in the hands of others. WRONG! Anyone can take the steps they need to recover from codependency and move on. It is tough but possible. I did it and if I did, others can too. Waiting at the end of that rainbow is a very healthy place. No-one could put it better than my favorite mental health writer and great inspiration, Dr Scott Peck, when he says :
Discipline is the basic set of tools we require to solve life’s problems. Without discipline we can solve nothing. With only some discipline we can solve only some problems. With total discipline we can solve all problems.
This topic was covered in another recent post of mine in that we need to face the problems life throws at us and face them constantly in order to grow. To do this we need discipline. READ MORE HERE