Handle Conflict Effectively If You Want Your Relationship To Thrive

Dr Nicholas Jenner

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Conflict in a relationship is inevitable. In itself, conflict is not a problem; how it is handled, however, can bring people together or tear them apart. Poor communication skills, disagreements and misunderstandings can be a source of anger and distance, or a springboard to a stronger relationship and happier future. Next time you are dealing with conflict, keep these tips on effective conflict management skills in mind and you can create a more positive outcome.

​Stay Focused: Sometimes it is tempting to bring up past seemingly related conflicts when dealing with current ones. Unfortunately, this often clouds the issue and makes finding mutual understanding and a solution to the current issue less likely and makes the whole discussion more taxing and even confusing. Try not to bring up past hurts or other topics. Stay focused on the present, your feelings, understanding one another and finding a solution.

​Listen Carefully: People…

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