Victimhood: A Tool In The Codependent Armoury
Codependents get a lot of sympathy from me. They are more likely to be abused and taken advantage of and their good nature is often exploited. They make bad decisions…
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Codependency: Passing On The Baggage
We all have unresolved issues from our past, some conscious and some that we are not aware of. These issues, if not dealt with can have a huge effect on…
New Podcast: Learn How Inner Child Therapy Can Help You!
Learn How I use Inner Child Therapy to effectively deal with many issues from childhood and dysfunctional attachment to caregivers.
Letting Go Is Hard As A Codependent
Codependents love to give. It is what they do, continually. As I have mentioned in previous posts, this giving comes with an element of return… giving for codependents means having…
Codependency Is Not Love But Control
These days we throw the words “narcissist” and “codependent” around like confetti. It is easy to label someone who appears self-centered as the former and one who gives a little…
Codependency Is The Result Of Ineffective Parenting. Think About Your Child!
It has been said that a large part of the global population is codependent on something or somebody. That something could be work, substances, alcohol. That somebody could be a…
No Resolutions, Just Reflection And Learning
It seems to be the norm that bloggers, therapists and anyone who puts pen to paper is writing about the last year and what is to come in the following…
Masochistic Codependency: Identifying As A Perpetual Victim
I doubt you will find the term “masochistic codependency” anywhere. It has, though, come to the fore in my mind many times when treating full-blown codependency. By full- blown, I…